Just realized I've been a little *too* in character

I've been messing with these character creators again, and here you see from left to right, Briony, Calista, and Aurelia, my main character and her sisters from Beauty is Blind.  I like to do these "character creator" games so that I can get a better image of my characters.  Besides, it's fun.  Though I'm not sure why Calista's hair is braided...

Anyway, I found this awesome one and did Calista's birthday dress.  The game had the option of making a male, so I set to doing Damien.  And I realized, I had no idea what he looked like!  Even in beast form, much less human form!  I'd been in Calista's head (it is first person, you know) that it didn't matter what he looked like versus what he felt like or sounded like.

I don't even know his hair and eye color!  I know Calista and Gabriel (her stillborn twin) have/had curly brown hair and purple eyes, due to the curse.  Briony is the green eyed redhead, and Aurelia is the blue eyed blonde.  Her father, Flavian has blond hair- and brown eyes, I think.  Her mother Elani has green eyes and brown hair.  But Damien?  I have no idea.

Color	Indication
Red	Unconditional Love
Orange	Carelessness, cowardice
Yellow	Anxious, worried, or scared
Emerald Green	Jealous, envious
Blue	Calm
Indigo	Unsure, insecurity
Violet	Courage
Magenta	Fun loving
Pink	Caring, kind-hearted
Black	Angry, hateful
Ice Blue	Cold hearted
Dark Blue	Between angry and calm
Grey	Sad, mourning, grief, sorrow
Green	Indignation, Pride
Sea Green	Fear
Turquoise	Happiness, joy
Pale Blue	Timid
Teal	Apprehension
Lavender	Amused, in wonder
Brown	Pity
Aqua	Surprise
Mahogany	Repentance
Dark Red	Shame
Puke Green	Disgust
Gold	Acceptance, respect
Plum	Frustration
Dark Orange	Deceit, lying

This is the beginning of the color spectrum that Calista "sees" in her life smudges.  So I don't really want to give him brown hair, because that will mean "pity" to her.  She associates these emotions with these colors and has been doing so her entire life, and when the curse of her blindness is broken... I thought about red hair.  I can't do black, obviously.  And what about eyes?  I kinda can't do green (fear, pride, jealously) or brown (pity) and how realistic would it be for him to have purple?  Grey wouldn't work (sadness) Hazel would look like disgust to her.. and that only leaves blue, but would that be copying Disney?  Or am I just overanalyzing this?
As of now, I've got him as a blue-eyed redhead...